The First Number Wins
The opening offer pulls the final figure toward it — for both sides, including experts who know this.
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provenHow strong is the evidence?
Tested again and again, by different people, and it keeps coming out the same. You can lean on this.
- Galinsky & Mussweiler, JPSP, 2001
- Northcraft & Neale, 1987 (estate agents anchored on list price)
Why it works
The first number becomes the frame everyone adjusts from, and adjustment is reliably insufficient.
What to do about it
- Make the first offer when you have decent information about value. Let them go first when you don't — their number is data.
- Anchor with a precise, odd number (₹4,87,000, not ₹5,00,000). Precision signals calculation and reduces counter-movement.
- If anchored against, do not counter-anchor from their number: reject the frame out loud, then restate your own basis.
Where people go wrong
Opening with a number you can't justify. An unjustifiable anchor gets discarded along with your credibility.
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