A four-year-old's ability to delay gratification predicts their life outcomes.
Watts, Duncan & Quan (2018), a larger and more representative sample: the correlation shrank sharply once family background and early cognitive ability were controlled.
Delay of gratification is substantially a function of circumstance and of whether promises have been kept to you before. Build the environment, not the child's grit.
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