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M·10 Mind & Body

Rumination Is Not Problem-Solving

Repetitively going over a problem in the first person deepens the mood and produces no solutions.

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Evidence
solid
Topic
Mind
Things to do
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solidHow strong is the evidence?

Good evidence behind it, but fewer people have checked it independently.

  • Nolen-Hoeksema, response styles theory
  • Kross & Ayduk, distanced self-reflection

Why it works

Immersed replay re-activates the feeling without changing the analysis. Distanced reflection asks why it happened, which is the version that resolves.

What to do about it

  • Switch the pronoun: “why did Devendra react like that?” The shift from I to your own name changes what the mind does with it.
  • Give worry a scheduled slot with an end time. Outside the slot, note it and defer it.
  • If ten minutes has produced no new action, it is not thinking. Move your body or write it down.

Where people go wrong

Mistaking the intensity of rumination for seriousness about the problem.

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